I don’t mind dating a younger man now –Ara
Now single drummer girl, Ara,has said
she is ready to give
marriage another shot now that she and her once
Iceland-based hubby have divorced.
In an exclusive chat with Saturday Beats recently,
Ara said she wouldn’t even mind going for a
younger guy if he comes around her.
“When I meet the right person and fall in love, I
will consider marriage. I really want to fall in love
again. I don’t believe in marriage just for its sake.
If a younger guy comes up to me, I don’t mind
dating the person. I don’t mind marrying
somebody who I am older than. I have spoken to
a couple of people and they don’t see anything
wrong with it. If the person has a mature mind
and is committed, then it is not a big deal.”
When asked if she is not looking for somebody
who she can control and manipulate, the singer
said she is not the overbearing type and she
never exhibited such trait in her former marriage.
“I am not that kind of person. I am the most
submissive wife. I am ‘mumu’ for love. You can
ask my ex, he can tell you. There was never a day I
didn’t ask him what I should cook even though I
was the breadwinner. I would always ask him
what he wanted. And whatever he said, if we
didn’t have it, I would jump on an okada and
enter the market to go and buy the stuff. I am a
hopeless lover,” she said.
Ara revealed that she and her ex are still “good
friends” because, “we have a child together. My
boy is six years already. He has remarried. I am
not envious that he got married again. God
forbid! When he calls me, I always ask him if his
wife isn’t around. I would also ask him if his wife
knows that I am not interested in him. I don’t
know her and I don’t know her name. I wouldn’t
want her to feel I want to take her husband again.
So I tell him I hope the wife knows that I am not
interested and that his calling me is just to find
out about his son. I wouldn’t want to make any
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